This article comes from my friend, Dana Bailey at Living Stones Ministry. Dana’s mission is “Encouraging Moms to Build their Homes to God’s Glory!” Dana is a beautiful writer, who’s love for the LORD is contagious. After reading Dana’s articles, I can’t help but feel motivated and encouraged, in the most healthy way, to be the best Mom God planned me to be.

After you read Dana’s article here, go over to Living Stones Ministry and join her RSS feed. Dana’s archive is full of great reads. It is time well spent.

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Christmas Traditions, by Dana Bailey

When I was young our house was full of Christmas traditions. My mother made Christmas gifts, we baked and we decorated our house as much as possible. It was so much fun. There was always some Christmas music playing in the background. I loved it, because we did things that I wanted to do all year, but it was reserved for Christmas.When I became a mother I wanted to create my own traditions for my family, but what I have found is that we have created traditions without knowing it. Our traditions became the things that we just loved doing the most so it was expected that we do it every year.

I love to bake so that is one thing that we do a lot of. We like to bake up a nice variety of goodies and then package them in little baskets and deliver to our friends and neighbors. This is our agenda for next week. The girls and I are scanning the cookbooks already looking for new recipes to try!

Here is a short list of simple things we do to get ready for Christmas. I try to make sure that my youngest ones understand that no matter what the TV says, Christmas is not about presents, it is about Jesus.

• Create a paper chain to count down the days until Christmas. On each piece write someone to pray for, an activity to do or a scripture to read.
• Pray for those who send you a Christmas card. Thank God for them and ask him to bless them this new year.
• Bake goodies and share it with your neighbors. Include in the basket a tract or a homemade card telling the Christmas story from the Gospels
• Volunteer at a local food pantry or homeless shelter.
• Find a family to secretly bless this Christmas with gifts or a meal.
• Starting a week before Christmas start reading the Christmas story and build your nativity set. Each day add another figure to your scene so that by Christmas Eve Baby Jesus finally arrives.
• Attend your church’s Christmas Eve service or a service closest to you.
• Pray together as a family on Christmas Eve and read the Scriptural account together. Spend some time together sharing what God has done for you this past year.

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“IT CAME! IT FINALLY CAME!!!”

The Dale and Thomas Free popcorn offer I told you about the other day? It arrived in the mail.

IT’S ABSOLUTELY AWESOME POPCORN! The Cinnamon Drizzlecorn should come with a warning that says you won’t be able to stop eating it. The Chocolate Chunk N’ Caramel took all my power to save some for my family.

Dale and Thomas Popcorn has White Cheddar & Black Peppercorn and Country Smokehouse Cheddar flavors that I going for next. My girlfriend, Faith, loves Hall of Fame Kettle Corn, so there’s no guessing what I’m buying her for Christmas.

Everyone loves popcorn, and Dale & Thomas has the ultimate! Go check them out, before it’s too late! The free popcorn offer is already gone. They have several great offers for the holidays, don’t miss out.

I just finished reading Laura Brittain’s blog, An Artful Life. Laura is a Creative Genius, not to mention a great Mom, a good cook, and a vibrant artist. God has definitely blessed her with many talents.
She’s written a funny and creative post,
Chalkboard Refrigerator Project. It’s all about why she transformed her frig into a chalkboard. I couldn’t help but get charged up about doing the same project. Talk about turning lemons into lemonade, she’s done it!

Max and I do a majority of our school work at the dining table. Many times, I wish we had something bigger than our small dry erase boards for illustrations. Changing the surface of the frig into a chalkboard would be ideal!

Go over and read Laura’s blog,
Chalkboard Refrigerator Project. Her blog is always a good read. And be sure to check out her artwork! It’s beautiful and bright, just like Laura.

Check it out!

DELICIOUS FREE POPCORN! 

Dale and Thomas Popcorn cooks up hand-finished premium popcorn. We can eat it plain or with scrumptious finishes like caramel, chocolate, peanut butter, cheese or any natural flavorings for popcorn truly worthy of obsession. I'm looking forward to trying their sweet and savory popcorn flavors!

I feel like a little kid right now.  I can't wait to get my FREE Chocolate Chunk n' Caramel Popcorn and Cinnamon Creme Drizzlecorn in the mail.  Hurry Postal carrier, hurry!

It wouldn't be the holidays without flavored popcorn to munch on. Don't you think so?

All the credit for this article goes to Holly Williams Urbach. I simply felt it was worth posting here, too.

Texas Home School Coalition Association REVIEW © August 2002

One of the first things a home schooling mother realizes is that she has all her previous duties to fulfill in addition to teaching her children. After much frustration, irritation, and aggravation, I worked out some principles and tactics that allow me to be a wife to my husband, a teacher to my children, an administrator to run our home, and even a participant in outside activities.

Most of the principles I use to manage my time come from what I learned from my mother and from my Bible reading. I found that there is much wisdom on time management in Proverbs, Titus, and I Timothy. I try to keep my priorities in the following order: God, husband, the kids, my job, and outside ministries.

Some of the principles I use for managing my time:

1. Combine trips as much as possible. Wherever I go, I make sure that I hit all the shops I need to in one trip. This reduces gas usage, the time I spend shopping or running errands, and the money I spend by not being out so much.

2. Do not feel that your children need to be taking classes for everything. Many women I talk to are stressed because they are constantly driving the kids to sports, music, art, etc. In our family, we have not yet had a child in organized sports because we, as a family, are not willing to sacrifice our family sanity for the schedules that sports teams require.

3. Limit your activities just as you do your children’s. Just because an activity is a “good” activity does not make it a “God” activity. Our time is precious, and we need to guard it carefully.

4. Re-evaluate your activities and schedule at least once a year. I usually take stock of our school and home life at the end of each school year. I make lots of adjustments, taking time to pray so that I have clear direction as to what I am called to do.

5. Use the phone. Much time is wasted going to a store to see if they carry a needed item. I find it a better use of my time to call the store to see if the item I want is carried there.

6. Train your children to help around the house. You cannot do it all and survive! Kids can do a lot more than we often expect. My kids all have chores, and though they grumble, they are also proud of themselves for being able to cook and clean.

7. Use the VCR. There are some shows I really enjoy and like to watch. If I record the show, I can watch it at a time more convenient for me and skip the commercials. An hour-long show lasts only about 45 minutes without commercials.

8. Multi-task! I almost never sit down to watch TV without having some laundry to fold, ironing to do, or papers to grade. I also wash dishes while I heat something up in the microwave. It is amazing how many dishes I can actually wash in the three minutes it takes to heat water for a cup of tea.

9. Work smarter, not harder! If I have laundry to wash, clothes to fold, and dinner to start all at the same time, I will start the washer, get dinner into the oven, and then go sit down watching the news while folding the laundry. If I need to mop the kitchen floor, I will just go ahead and mop all the floors, since I already have the mop, bucket, and cleaner ready. Make use of the appliances you own. In earlier days, many homemakers employed maids, cooks, and laundry women. Today, we have crock pots, bread makers, washers, dryers, etc.

10. Keep a running list. On the refrigerator I have a list on which to write what I need from the store as I run out/low on things. This practice eliminates time trying to remember or having to go through the house and pantry writing my list on shopping day.

11. Organize and eliminate! I try to keep only what we need and go through the house on a periodic basis, pulling unused and outgrown things from our rooms to donate to a good cause. After I declutter, I organize. Much less time is spent looking for art supplies if they are in a designated place. Much less time is spent caring for our home when everything has a place and we only have the things we really need. Do our things have us, or do we have our things?

12. Stick to a schedule. We have a pretty standard schedule in our home. It helps me with time management because I do not have to spend time thinking about what I need to do. It also helps me to get from one activity to another. Elizabeth George, author of A Woman after God’s Own Heart, says that this sort of schedule, which she calls “horizontal planning,” conserves and generates energy by cutting down indecision. She suggests that we try to put as many tasks as possible into a routine.

13. If your children do have some extra-curricular activities, try to find something that all or most of them can do together but on their own levels. My two daughters are in 4-H. One daughter is 15 years old, and the other one is 10 1/2 old. They each do what they like on their own level, but I only have to drive to one meeting for both of them to be involved in their activities. My boys participate in Scouting, and it works the same way. The kids enjoy the benefits of extra activities, and I am not running myself ragged taking five children to various meetings.

A sample day at my house:

I start my day at 6 a.m. by watching my favorite Bible teacher, Joyce Meyer. I throw in a load of clothes to wash while I fold others as I watch her show, “Life In the Word.” When the show is over at 6:30 a.m., I pop the freshly washed clothes into the dryer and put away the folded ones. I take a moment to read the Proverb for that day and maybe something else from another part of the Bible. I have a short prayer time, and then I get ready for the day.

I make my kids a list detailing their chores for the day and their school assignments. I get ready for work and am out the door by 7:30 a.m. When I get back home at 11:30 a.m., I check on the chores and schoolwork and prepare lunch. After lunch we do schoolwork until it is completed – usually around 3-3:30 p.m.

I often will take a short nap and then prepare dinner while the kids play outside, use the computer, or watch a few favorite TV shows. We eat dinner around 6-6:30 p.m. I try to grade their papers as they complete them but often will have a grading session on Sunday evenings. I try to do my shopping on Saturday mornings when I make the rounds to the grocery store, bread store, and dollar stores. I try to plan ahead, buying gifts when I see good markdowns and stocking up on things we use if there is a good sale.

I am highly scheduled, which enables me to know what I am doing and what free time I have to do other things. Kids’ activities are on Mondays; my Moms’ groups are usually on Tuesdays; we have a local park day and library day on Wednesday afternoons; home church is on Thursdays; Fridays are free; Saturdays are for shopping; and Sundays are church and family day.

Just remember, as you continue to seek godly wisdom on managing your time, God will supply. Your home schooling will be enriched, as will everything else to which you put your hands.

At the time of this article’s first publication, Holly Williams Urbach and her husband Joe lived in Kyle where Holly was homeschooling her five children and serving as a Smoothing the Way leader.

This article can be found at http://www.thsc.org/Getting_Started/TimeManagement.asp

For while we were still weak at the right time Christ died for the ungodly. But God proves his love for us in that while we still were sinners Christ died for us. Romans 5:6-8

In this love, not that we loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins. 1 John 4:10

Occasionally, I struggle with the order of life and it’s events. I trip over minute details that without real wisdom cause scratches on my spiritual knees.

I asked Jesus into my heart when I was eight years old. Since then, I have made many terrible decisions. Decisions that , every now & again, I think God will punish me for because they’re too big not to go overlooked.

Then, He reminds me in Romans & 1 John that He didn’t save me from my sins when I was eight, back in 1976.
He saved me back in A.D. 30.